“Well son, I’ll tell you life for me ain’t been no crystal stair. It’s had tacks in it and splinters. And boards torn up, And places with no carpet on the floor, bare. But all the time I’se being a climbin’ on and reaching’ landin’s and turnin’ corners, and sometime goin’ in the dark where there ain’t been no light. So boy, don’t you turn back. Don’t you set down on the steps, cause you find it s kinder of hard. Don’t you fall now, for I’se still going honey, I’se still climbin, And life for me ain’t been no crystal stair.”
Langston Hughes pinned these words which I am using to introduce you to my adopted sons and now pastors Wade Forde and LaKeith Clayvon.
I remember when they were born because I knew their parents before they were married, so you see this family relationship goes back aways into the sixties. As a matter of fact, I know their grandparents. I got to know the boys because Wade is our godson and Keith was our neighbor.
Each of these fine young men have had a rough flight of stairs to climb down wi th a single parent to raise them. In the case of Wade, his mother Charlotte, bore that task along with the help of strong grandparents -- Charles and Madeline Seymour. And I cannot forget their tight knit support group of cousins and church members. Wade is the youngest of three boys with older brothers Wells and Weldon. That did not bother him one bit. It actually helped develop his confidence and ability to express himself very well. If you know his brothers you know why he had to develop those skills or be left behind. His mother and grandmother kept Wade in regular church attendance at 16th Street Seventh Day Adventist Church where he was exposed to good leadership from the pastors.
Wade is the same age as our youngest daughter, Regina and he talks fast with a philosophical point of view to back up his beliefs. This is one reason I believe God called him to preach His word. People need to understand why and how God relates to them.
Keith was raised by his father, Michael and later his stepmother Verna Clayvon. Keith is the eldest of three boys and spent many days and nights down at my house working and playing with our son Hardy, II. There were ten boys on our block and our challenge was to help them navigate this stairway of life by completing their education, staying out of gangs, away from drugs and other trouble. His father and stepmother worked out of town in Los Angeles so we became his go to parents. Keith followed us to St. Paul AME Church and joined the usher board with his buddy Hardy, II. I also hired Keith and the neighborhood boys to help mail and deliver papers. They would put on the address labels to our subscribers each week in our garage. Sometimes they would spend more time break dancing than putting on labels but they would always meet the deadline of getting the papers to the post office in Redlands. I just wanted to teach responsibility, accountability and reliability.
Now we have two fine young men trained in the Gospel. Both are well educated, married to wonderful women of God, have budding families of their own, and are now heading up churches in the Inland Empire.
Wade is the new pastor of Perris SDA Church in Perris and Keith is the pastor of Honor & Truth Church Of God In Christ in San Bernardino.
They both took charge of their church this past weekend.
Please join with me in welcoming pastor’s Wade Forde and LaKeith Clayvon to their life of community service in doing the Lord’s work. Help them as they walk down this Crystal Stairway, of life with its many splinters, twists and turns. Tell them your story of how God brought you over. Tell them who picked the splinters out of your backside and who picked you up when things got dark. Tell them of the days there was no carpet on the floor and no air conditioning in the building. Let them know how to work with the members of the church who know everything. Let them know that you have been where they are going and that you are still climbing and reaching to make it. Let them know that the good life you are now living has not always been a Crystal Stair.